Family. AAHHHHHHH!
So this weekend was great.
Brian had a meeting from 11-1 and then the rest of the day and night off. He worked well over 70 hours and was exausted. He called me at 9 am to talk. I was so confused. I hadn't even started my day yet. Yes Friday I got up late. I'm usually up from 7am to 8:30am. Well he was very excited. He was trying everything to stay awake. See he worked all night and got off at 5am. Then he had a meeting at 11am so he couldnt go to bed because then he wouldn't be able to get himself up. So he started to watch titantic and then leonardo Dicapro died and he was crying missing his family. Don't anyone tell him I said this. LOL. So he called me and said I don't want to die alone. Well just that night I was thinking the same thing. I was wondering if my Grandma Had felt sad when she was dying because she had no husband to be with her. Did she ever regret being with her husband. Of course I call him her husband because I have never met him. They divorced and she never spoke of him. WHen she died thought she was very senile.
Brian and I do that a lot. think about the same things around the same time. A month ago i was thinking. I should make some potato soup. I craved it so bad. NO not because im pregnant just because I wanted potato soup so bad nothing else tasted good. Well I hadn't seen brian all week and then he showed up on Friday and said. Im going to lose my mind. I've wanted potato soup all week. All I could do was laugh and kiss him. We do that all the time. Soulmates. lol
So he went to work and after we spent some time together. Then we all went to eat around 5.We pulled up to the restaurant and all the guys were asleep. I turned off the van and set listening to them softly breathing. Each taking their turn to exhale gently. It was so peaceful. The rain hit the roof of the van with a relaxing pitter patter. I just set there letting them breath in and out each others oxygen. This was my family. I watched brian sleep like I had done for 7 years and I knew I loved him. He is a part of my boys and I am a part of them and together in harmony we collided that night. I set for a long time. Till the cold came in the window. till The rain turned to ice. Enjoying what my spirit had missed. taking in the warmth of their presents. Allowing my heart to soak into them. My family.
Finally I started the van and drove to a restaurant. We had seafood. My boys love seafood. And cole slaw. Oh lots and lots of cole slaw. Oh yeah and josh ate a good deal of clams.
Then we all retreated back to my apartment Brian of course had an energy drink to stay awake since it had been Thurday since he last slept and it was nearly Sat. He had so much energy he put a tv stand together for me and set up the bed and never complained except to tell the boys to go to bed. He finished it quickly and without any mistakes.
then he came back to sleep on Sunday after work. It was such a great weekend. Fights were put aside we just enjoyed our family. I wish it could always be like that. calm peaceful FAMILY.
Oh yeah what you've been waiting for that I promised. My SmartAllic or should I say SmartAlex. Al is in a not listening mode. Something suddenly took over and he disobeys everything and just simply tones you out. So brian told him something and he of course did not listen. So brian said Al right now 1. And al replied. 2, 3,4, 5. All brian could say was smartallic.
I laughed and said yes he can count and he knows abcs. lol one smart 2 year old.
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