No you can't use the potty

I came to the decision that if I do not potty train my 2 year old he will be a baby forever. Im so afraid that if I potty train him then next is high school and college then married and kids and out goes mommy. So ive put off potty training. Everyone around me says you need to have him pottied trained. No I decleared. I was determined to not let him grow up. He's my baby. Why should he be potty trained. He has 4 years to learn that skill before elementry why start early. Well my husband was going to the bathroom he kept yelling at my son to get out of the bathroom. When done his father locked the bathroom door. My son started screaming. He yelled mommy moommmyyy. What He began to shack me. Yelling mommmyyy. What? I need to poopy. HUhhh. Okay I Said. So I put him on the toilet. He pushed really hard and made a funny face. I look nothing was happening. He did a few more pushes and said all done. Of course he didnt poop, but he did let me know that he wants to be pottying in the toilet. Man. Wish for think. I guess children will grow up when they are ready even if your not ready yet. So I gave in and bought him some boy underwear. And tomarrow I am on the new journey of potty training. BUT IM NO HAPPY ABOUT IT. Thanks for listen . mel